A member in Club Jam asked me something last week that I have not been able to stop thinking about. She runs a small bookkeeping practice, and she said, "I typed 'best bookkeeper near me' into ChatGPT and it named three firms. None of them were me. Two of them are smaller than I am. How did they get in there and I did not?"
That question is the whole ballgame right now. People are no longer only typing things into Google and scrolling ten blue links. They are asking ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, and Google's AI overviews a full sentence like "who should I hire to redo my kitchen in Denver" and then acting on the two or three names that come back. If your business is not one of those names, you are not losing the click. You never entered the conversation.
The good news, and it really is good news, is that getting recommended by AI is not a mystery and it is not expensive. It is a set of very ordinary things that most small businesses simply have not done yet. I have trained more than 7,500 people on this, and the ones who get picked up by AI are almost never the ones with the biggest budget. They are the ones who made their business easy to understand.
Quick definitions
AEO (answer engine optimization) is making your business easy for an AI to quote when someone asks it a question. Old SEO chased rankings. AEO chases being the answer.
Citation is when an AI names you or links to you in its response. That is the new version of showing up on page one.
Training data vs. live search. Some of what AI knows came from reading the web months ago. Some of it it looks up in the moment. You want to be findable in both, which is why consistency over time matters more than one big push.
What actually happens when someone asks AI to recommend a business
It helps to picture what is going on under the hood, because once you see it, the to-do list writes itself.
When someone asks an AI for a recommendation, the model is doing something closer to remembering and reading than to ranking. It pulls from what it absorbed from the open web, and increasingly it also runs a live search and skims what it finds. Then it has to summarize. And here is the part that matters: a summarizer will always favor the source that is clearest, most specific, and easiest to state in one sentence.
That is why a tiny business with a plain, well-written site full of straight answers can beat a bigger competitor with a beautiful site that never quite says what it does. The AI is not judging your taste. It is looking for something it can confidently repeat.
Step 1. Say what you do in one sentence a stranger could repeat
Go look at your homepage right now and find the first real sentence. If it says something like "we deliver transformative solutions for forward-thinking brands," an AI cannot recommend you, because it does not know what you sell or who you sell it to.
You want a sentence with three concrete things in it: what you do, who you do it for, and where. "We are a bookkeeping firm in Boulder, Colorado for service businesses doing 250,000 to 2 million a year." That sentence can be quoted. The other one cannot.
Here is a prompt I use for this with clients. Paste your homepage copy into Claude and ask: "Read this and tell me, in one sentence, what this business does, who it serves, and where it is located. If you cannot tell from the page, say so and tell me exactly what is missing." That last line is the important part. The gaps it names are your homework.
Step 2. Write the pages that answer real questions
AI recommends businesses that have already answered the question being asked. So stop writing content about your industry in general and start writing the page that matches the actual sentence a customer would say out loud.
Not "Our Services." Instead: "How much does bookkeeping cost for a small service business?" and "What does a bookkeeper actually do each month?" and "When should I switch from DIY to a bookkeeper?"
Each of those is a page. Each page opens with a direct answer in the first two or three sentences, before any story or setup. AI tools lift the first clear answer they find. Bury yours under four paragraphs of warm-up and you hand the citation to someone else.
Step 3. Put a real FAQ section on your important pages
Question-and-answer formatting is the single most quotable structure on the internet. A heading that is a question, followed by a short, complete answer, is exactly the shape an AI wants.
Add five to eight real questions to your homepage, your main service pages, and every blog post. Answer them in plain language in about 40 to 80 words each. Write the answer so it makes sense on its own, with no "as we mentioned above." Every answer should be able to stand alone, because that is how it will get used.
Step 4. Get your basic facts identical everywhere
This one is unglamorous and it moves the needle more than almost anything else. Your business name, address, phone number, hours, and service area need to match exactly across your website, your Google Business Profile, your social profiles, and every directory you are listed in.
When those details disagree, an AI has competing information about you and it does the safe thing, which is to recommend a business it is more sure about. Spend one afternoon making everything match. It is genuinely that boring and that effective.
Step 5. Claim and fill out your Google Business Profile completely
Google's AI answers lean hard on Google's own data. If you serve any kind of local market, a complete profile is not optional.
Fill in every field. Add real photos, not stock. Pick precise categories. List your actual services with descriptions. Post updates a couple of times a month so the profile looks alive. And answer the questions section yourself, because those answers get pulled into AI results surprisingly often.
Step 6. Collect reviews that say what you did, not just that you were great
AI reads reviews for substance. "Great service, highly recommend" tells it nothing. "They cleaned up two years of messy books and got us ready for taxes in three weeks" tells it what you do, who for, and how well.
So change what you ask for. Instead of "would you mind leaving a review," try "would you mind leaving a review that mentions what you hired us for and what changed?" You will get shorter reviews and better ones. Ask every happy client, every time, and make it a step in your offboarding rather than something you remember once a quarter.
Step 7. Get mentioned on sites that are not yours
Your own website says you are good. That is expected. What builds real confidence is other places on the web saying the same thing.
Practical, unglamorous versions of this: get listed in the directories your industry actually uses, go on two or three small podcasts, write a guest post for a partner's blog, join your chamber of commerce and make sure the listing is filled out, and get quoted in any local roundup you can find. None of this requires being famous. It requires being findable in more than one place.
Step 8. Make sure your site can actually be read
A few technical basics, in plain English, that you can hand to whoever manages your site.
Your important text should be real text on the page, not baked into an image or a video. Your headings should be actual headings, in order, so the structure is obvious. Your pages should load fast and work on a phone. And your robots.txt file should not be blocking AI crawlers, which is a setting a surprising number of sites have on by accident. If you have a developer, that is a one-line question to ask them today.
Step 9. Check your results, then fix what you find
Once a month, open ChatGPT, Claude, and Google and ask the exact questions your customers would ask. "Who is the best [what you do] in [your city]?" "What should I look for when hiring a [what you do]?" "Is [your business name] any good?"
Read what comes back with a notepad open. Are you named? If not, who is, and what does their site say that yours does not? Is anything about you wrong or out of date? That last one happens constantly, and it is the fastest thing to fix.
Quick tip
Ask the AI directly: "Based on what you can find about my business at [your website], what would stop you from recommending it to someone?" It will tell you. I have never once seen that question come back empty, and the answer is usually a shorter to-do list than you feared.
A sane order to do this in
You do not need to do all nine this week. If you want a simple sequence, do it like this.
Week one, fix your one-sentence description and make your basic facts match everywhere. Week two, claim and fully complete your Google Business Profile and start asking for specific reviews. Week three, add FAQ sections to your top three pages. Week four, write the first two question-shaped pages and check your results with the prompts above. Then repeat the last two steps monthly.
That is a couple of hours a week for a month, and it puts you ahead of most of the businesses you are competing with, because most of them are still waiting for someone to explain this to them.
Frequently asked questions
How long does it take before AI starts recommending my business?
Plan on a few weeks to a few months, depending on how much of the groundwork you have already done. Live-search results (like Google's AI overviews and the AI tools that browse the web) can pick up changes within days once your pages are clear and consistent. The knowledge baked into a model updates far more slowly. This is a compounding habit, not a switch you flip, which is exactly why starting now beats starting perfectly.
Do I need to pay for a special AEO tool or agency?
No. Every step in this post can be done by you, for free, with the tools you already have. Paid tools mostly help with tracking and reporting at scale. If you are a small business, your money is better spent on actually writing the pages and gathering the reviews. I do not write code and I do all of this myself.
Does old-fashioned SEO still matter?
Yes, and here is the relief: it is largely the same work. Clear pages, real answers, fast loading, honest information, and other sites linking to you. AI search rewards the same fundamentals, it just rewards clarity and directness more heavily than keyword placement. If you have been doing good SEO, you are most of the way there already.
What if my industry is not something people ask AI about?
Test that assumption before you accept it. Open any AI tool and ask the questions your customers ask you on the phone. Most business owners are surprised by how confidently the AI answers about their category, and by which competitors it names. Even in quiet industries, being the clearest source means you get cited when the questions do come.
My business is brand new with no reviews. Am I out of luck?
Not at all, and new businesses often move faster because there is nothing to clean up. Start with a crystal-clear description, a complete Google Business Profile, three question-shaped pages, and the first five reviews you can earn honestly. Specific beats established. An AI will happily recommend a small, clear, well-documented business over a vague one that has been around for twenty years.
Can I just ask AI to add my business to its recommendations?
No, and be cautious of anyone selling you that. There is no list to buy your way onto. What you can do is make your business the easiest, clearest, most consistently documented option in your category, and that is what actually earns the mention. The work in this post is the only real path, which is good news, because it means it is available to you.
Where to go from here
Here is what I want you to take away. Getting recommended by AI is not a technical problem. It is a clarity problem. The businesses that win at this are the ones a stranger could describe accurately after thirty seconds on their website.
So pick step one and do it today. Rewrite that first sentence on your homepage. Then go ask ChatGPT and Claude what they say about you, and let the answer tell you what is next.
If you want the version of this where you are not doing it alone, that is exactly what Club Jam is for. It is 47 dollars a month, there is a 7-day free trial, and inside you get 220+ modules plus a room full of everyday business owners working through this same list. Our retention is 93 percent, which tells you more about the room than anything I could write here. Come find us at jamout.ai and let us get your business into the answer. 🧡